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Advice from women on the apps.<\/em><\/p>\n

If you\u2019re a woman using a dating app to meet men, you\u2019ve undoubtedly seen some sh**. You\u2019ve considered gauging your eyes out after days of crusty gym selfies. You\u2019ve prayed to exorcise the misogynist platitudes: \u201cDon\u2019t take yourself too seriously,\u201d \u201cBe spontaneous,\u201d \u201cRead books,\u201d \u201cTravel with me,\u201d \u201cI\u2019m overly competitive about everything,\u201d and on, and on, and on.<\/p>\n

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For the men reading this, you are far less likely to attract that silly, adventurous, literary woman you desire with these clich\u00e9s. Writing a dating app profile is hard. For everyone! No shame in your game if you\u2019ve been that guy opining about how women should be rather than showing off your greatest qualities, but let\u2019s kick it up\u2014like, 100 notches. Here are a few simple steps to take your profile from revolting to ravishing.<\/p>\n

1. Keep It Short<\/strong><\/p>\n

No one wants to read a big list of your favorite bands or of what you\u2019re looking for in a partner. Emulate a Tweet. Keep your answer under two sentences unless it is a spectacular anecdote that requires three. Women are busy! Give them an hors d’oeuvre, not a seven-course meal.<\/p>\n

2. Be Kind<\/strong><\/p>\n

Everyone loves a bitch sesh, but the limited space on your profile should highlight your most enticing qualities, not your frustrations. You don\u2019t need to feign interest in astrology; instead, focus on what brings you joy, like your passions or communities.<\/p>\n

3. Be Silly<\/strong><\/p>\n

Who doesn\u2019t love a good sense of humor? Of course, that\u2019s major, but instead of writing that verbatim, show, don\u2019t tell. Make jokes that are to your own comedic tastes. Play with syntax, funny stories, hyperbolic sentiments, sarcasm\u2014whatever is in your arsenal to make a profile that you would find funny. Dating shouldn\u2019t feel terrible and overwhelming; it should foster fun. Enjoy what you put out, and you will attract equitable energy.<\/p>\n

4. Make It All About You<\/strong><\/p>\n

The trick to sharing your sense of humor on your profile is imagining what you\u2019d want to see while perusing the app. Put yourself on the other side of the phone. How can you tailor your profile to attract people you\u2019ll actually vibe with? The key is a pinch of vulnerability. You don\u2019t need to go overboard and share any intimate details, but including some information about yourself\u2014be it your vibe, interests, or dreams\u2014will draw people in rather than repel them away.<\/p>\n

5. Be Honest<\/strong><\/p>\n

Rounding your height to the nearest inch is a perfectly acceptable, teeny little untruth. Writing that you\u2019re 6\u20193 when you\u2019re 5\u20197 is another story. Dates care way less about your size than about your integrity. Keep your primary identifiers factual. Height, neighborhood of residence, job, AGE: while it\u2019s common to twist the truth in these quarters, it\u2019s never nice to discover you\u2019ve been bamboozled. Once again, put yourself in their place. People will want you for who you are, not a bloated fantasy of yourself.<\/p>\n

6. Use Good Pics<\/strong><\/p>\n

Make sure that at least half of your photos are actually of you. It is very attractive to have a face! Pictures of pets, art projects, memes, and funny gizmos are all fair play, but there should be enough evidence on your profile that you\u2019re not a bot. Pictures with your favorite people or doing your favorite things are the most special. Please refrain from photos where you\u2019ve had drinks spilled all over your shirt or are firing some sort of large weapon. Don\u2019t blur out other people\u2019s faces in photos\u2026that\u2019s scary! Crop them, at the very least.<\/p>\n

These six tips came from several questionnaires in early 2023 that asked women what they most like and dislike seeing on men\u2019s dating profiles. If you have more to contribute, drop a comment to be included in Part 2! In the end, all people really want is human connection. If you\u2019re using a dating app to get some, why not try and spruce it up a bit?<\/p>\n

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